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      Quote Originally Posted by DD79 View Post
      Meant it more from my experience my friend. Iíve actually done all 4 of those in deferent situations, to include being scared. Thatís the one that haunts me tho.

      Def didnít mean any disrespect brother


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      Absolutely understandable. Thanks a ton for clarifying brotherman. Always like keeping things real and positive. Appreciate the advice and input my man!


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      Wow brother that feels like a tense situation to be in, it's very cool that she came to you and asked you for help. That says alot about your character as a person bro so props.
      Have a beer with the guy get him to laugh ease his guard down then talk to him about it maybe that simple tactic might change everything or see if you can persuade him to go his own way with no hard feelings. but the situation is quickly turning toxic... I agree with the majority, she needs to let him go. Addictions makes us very unstable and unpredictable to those around us. I hope it works out with no violence. Please let us know the out come of how it turns out brother

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      Hopefully you don't get that call from her after he beats her ass while throwing a tantrum. I've had to cut one of my closest friends out for shit like this.selfish grown man brat behavior

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      Quote Originally Posted by T-bone View Post
      Wow brother that feels like a tense situation to be in, it's very cool that she came to you and asked you for help. That says alot about your character as a person bro so props.
      Have a beer with the guy get him to laugh ease his guard down then talk to him about it maybe that simple tactic might change everything or see if you can persuade him to go his own way with no hard feelings. but the situation is quickly turning toxic... I agree with the majority, she needs to let him go. Addictions makes us very unstable and unpredictable to those around us. I hope it works out with no violence. Please let us know the out come of how it turns out brother

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      Thanks t bone. We have both been through a lot together. Good friend to have.

      Never thought about askin him to go hang out maybe grab a beer and some wings. Awesome idea. I want the end outcome to be peaceful who wouldnít. So thanks for the idea brotherman!!


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      Quote Originally Posted by teejey View Post
      Hopefully you don't get that call from her after he beats her ass while throwing a tantrum. I've had to cut one of my closest friends out for shit like this.selfish grown man brat behavior

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      Man I hate that happened to you all. Very selfish of the other person and I donít want that turn out but Iím gonna make something happen and it will turn out good. Thanks for the hopes brother.


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      Quote Originally Posted by PopeyeManFly View Post
      Thanks t bone. We have both been through a lot together. Good friend to have.

      Never thought about askin him to go hang out maybe grab a beer and some wings. Awesome idea. I want the end outcome to be peaceful who wouldnít. So thanks for the idea brotherman!!


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      Absolutely my man! Always glad to help a good friend out!!

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      Update:

      Everything has settled down. She went for an interview for a better job so she can move out and it went good. High hopes for it. Havenít been able to reach the guy. Was told he stopped the foolishness but she is still moving on. So it wonít be long til we are helping her move out.

      Big thanks for the support for all who participated and gave input, experience, and advice.




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      Quote Originally Posted by PopeyeManFly View Post
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      Everything has settled down. She went for an interview for a better job so she can move out and it went good. High hopes for it. Haven’t been able to reach the guy. Was told he stopped the foolishness but she is still moving on. So it won’t be long til we are helping her move out.

      Big thanks for the support for all who participated and gave input, experience, and advice.




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      Glad to hear everything is working out. Not knowing her or enough of the situation obviously take my two cents with a grain of salt. If you are really close friends with her you may consider getting her into therapy. If she just went through a bad divorce and then this, at the very least she's experienced some shit in her recent past that some good therapy could help her process through. The other side of it is on some level there's something up with her. Please please please hear me when I say, I'm not victim blaming. I'm not criticizing her in any way. What I am saying is she just experience 2 bad relationships in a row which most likely means she's heading for 3. If she doesn't seek some help to find out why her relationships are ending up this way it'll probably happen again.

      It can be a difficult situation when someone feels like they've been wronged to then tell them they need help. Most of the time they're like fuck you I'm fine it's those assholes fault that things went bad. Yes it is their fault if she didn't do anything wrong but unfortunately she'll probably attract the same type of guy again if she doesn't experience some change within herself.

      Just so we're extra super duper crystal clear I'm not blaming her. I'm not saying she's a problem or the problem. I just like to see the best for people and sometimes to get there people need to gain a deeper understanding of themselves. Good therapy can help. Good luck brother.

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      Quote Originally Posted by Bam3into1 View Post
      Glad to hear everything is working out. Not knowing her or enough of the situation obviously take my two cents with a grain of salt. If you are really close friends with her you may consider getting her into therapy. If she just went through a bad divorce and then this, at the very least she's experienced some shit in her recent past that some good therapy could help her process through. The other side of it is on some level there's something up with her. Please please please hear me when I say, I'm not victim blaming. I'm not criticizing her in any way. What I am saying is she just experience 2 bad relationships in a row which most likely means she's heading for 3. If she doesn't seek some help to find out why her relationships are ending up this way it'll probably happen again.

      It can be a difficult situation when someone feels like they've been wronged to then tell them they need help. Most of the time they're like fuck you I'm fine it's those assholes fault that things went bad. Yes it is their fault if she didn't do anything wrong but unfortunately she'll probably attract the same type of guy again if she doesn't experience some change within herself.

      Just so we're extra super duper crystal clear I'm not blaming her. I'm not saying she's a problem or the problem. I just like to see the best for people and sometimes to get there people need to gain a deeper understanding of themselves. Good therapy can help. Good luck brother.
      No misunderstanding brother thanks for that. I agree with the idea. She has a long history of picking bad seeds but we always try and help her out by being supportive of finding other options and not rushing into things.

      I think at this point therapy is such a good option to mention in a modest way. I will talk this over with my boss lady and come up with a way to bring these points up, in which I do agree with you on, in a way that isnít judgmental or hurtful in perceiving them.

      Thanks my bro


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      Help her first to protect her then approach you friend. When they reach a certain point doing certain "things" ,always remember thats not the friend you knew, thats the replacement that is owned by an addiction. They are different people

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