Thread: Stash destroyed

Originally Posted by Dungan23

So just like I wrote, my entire stash was destroyed, I’m talking 15+ vials, pills and ai’s. Let me start from the beginning during December/January I got bronchitis and I was in and out of the hospital for about a month n a half well my gf thought it’d be a great idea to clean out my room while I was gone. Well as a result of her cleaning she got her hands on my keys to my safe, and it was all down hill from there. I was in the hospital and she came up and showed me pics she took of everything and broke it down either a. She gets rid of it n she’ll stay with me (it’s been 4 years together) or b. She’s gone for good. Well I obviously chose a..she told me good choice because I already trashed everything in your safe. I was devastated, being sick n in the hospital I was just cruising currently. I can’t even do that now, I gotta start from scratch n get back into the swing of things, I don’t run crazy cycles but I had a good amount of stuff, anyway just thought I’d share with you guys see if anyone else has had anything similar happen. I’m so lost on my next move it sucks, I finally start feeling better and this bomb gets dropped on me. Luckily I have a P.O. Box so I can start rebuilding it’s just bs cause I was setup strong from over the years..good luck to each n every one of you hope you don’t have to go through an experience like that...oh she even trashed my safe so I couldn’t use it again.

I met my wife told her my gear comes with me 12 years ago. I got the photo threat so locked it up. Got the break in break my sh8t threat, well I will get more.... easy. LMAO!!!
So either it me and my gear or I will find a trusted place to keep it..... and will be stopping there every day to use it ..


That thought of another woman and safe keeping my gear that crapped stopped long ago.

It's a power thing, why break your gear??? And if she is against gear pretent to start drinking and go get room come back drink sip of hard liquor with perfume on clothes. Make then or break them. Not quoting my gear for nobody period and cops can only charge me if it goes that far. Lmao!!! Using my gear and lady loves it. Really my wife only gave me sh8t when she would run out adhd meds early and I said something for borrowing mine.

So get another stash.... as far as the breaking of gear, that is crazy type sh8t!!! I have had horn tooters.... hold horn outside depending their way..
Best way to deal with that crap is not fight, leave house block phone and come back next morning or afternoon. It starts again leave again.... either it stops or be apart.

Give and take, why she was against gear, everyone in my family and wife's knows I use gear... I don't talk about it but said too many times if it was mentioned, I said yeah I know and I like it. Sex drive is magic with gear!!! Women later 30s really need a guy on gear to keep up.

But if my gear was broken I would be pissed and get so much more that she expense would be not worth it. Also if she wanted another chance it would be with giving up something to make up for my gear...

Now I will read post all of them

As said get more gear, be honest upfront. None of us are perfect we all have some secret. Well share that secret of gear use with your lady and u and her can be grateful that is your little secret...

Some got bad crap, I been told I was too innocent as a man, but always say no babe I got my gear, my bodybuilding stuff and boards I frequent.... I can always start FB or IG...... no busy with my interst in bodybuilding, gear, and our brother hood of iron...

It will forever be a problem
If you do it. And she doesn’t know or agree
It will
Always cause tension.


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I told my wife before we got serious. Well.. she doesn't mind. She told me that it's not an issue because trying to better ones self ( physically) isn't a problem.

Completely agree with you

Any woman who would think it’s okay to just trash your gear clearly has boundary issues. To even think it’s okay to just open your safe clearly has no respect for your privacy

I get that there are feelings involved but she has some issues

Originally Posted by Thompsoncustom

I'd be worried more about the girl than the stash. It's one thing to talk you about not doing something or even say she will leave if you coutinue but it's a whole different animal to just trash your stuff when your in the hospital.

I'm not saying you should leave her......but your 4 years in and you should be thinking about things like "would I be ok with shit like this for the rest of my life"

This is all assuming she knows your on roids and your not hiding it from her.

My wife tossed about $2k worth of gear on me once. That was a bad day.

Originally Posted by Dungan23

So just like I wrote, my entire stash was destroyed, I’m talking 15+ vials, pills and ai’s. Let me start from the beginning during December/January I got bronchitis and I was in and out of the hospital for about a month n a half well my gf thought it’d be a great idea to clean out my room while I was gone. Well as a result of her cleaning she got her hands on my keys to my safe, and it was all down hill from there. I was in the hospital and she came up and showed me pics she took of everything and broke it down either a. She gets rid of it n she’ll stay with me (it’s been 4 years together) or b. She’s gone for good. Well I obviously chose a..she told me good choice because I already trashed everything in your safe. I was devastated, being sick n in the hospital I was just cruising currently. I can’t even do that now, I gotta start from scratch n get back into the swing of things, I don’t run crazy cycles but I had a good amount of stuff, anyway just thought I’d share with you guys see if anyone else has had anything similar happen. I’m so lost on my next move it sucks, I finally start feeling better and this bomb gets dropped on me. Luckily I have a P.O. Box so I can start rebuilding it’s just bs cause I was setup strong from over the years..good luck to each n every one of you hope you don’t have to go through an experience like that...oh she even trashed my safe so I couldn’t use it again.

thats fucked up bro, maybe move on. sounds like she is irrational and have made up her mind about gear, u dont want to hide and pin, because if she somehow finds out who knows what she might do, call the dirty cops on you?