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      partners of childhood sexual abuse victims

      I think I need help and so if anyone has any links or resources I would be beyond thankful.

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      I don't even know really. anything. books message board to talk to people who went thru the same thing...whatever. Something to know what to say to her the next time it comes up. I just found out everything last night and its all I can do not to go and kill him right now. It so far beyond fucked up and just about the worst that someone could imagine. I don't think it's healthy to feel like this and I don't think it's going to help her...so anything
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      Dang forty! I am so sorry. I wish I could give you some advice.

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      Quote Originally Posted by 5forty View Post
      I don't even know really. anything. books message board to talk to people who went thru the same thing...whatever. Something to know what to say to her the next time it comes up. I just found out everything last night and its all I can do not to go and kill him right now. It so far beyond fucked up and just about the worst that someone could imagine. I don't think it's healthy to feel like this and I don't think it's going to help her...so anything
      Sorry man I went through that as a child and have life long hatred the people that hurt me as a child are dead I find its good to leave it alone mentally but women pick up on it my friends wifes think I hate women tell they get to know me u can Pm me if u want

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      Counseling is good but finding a good counselor is hard

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      My ex wife was a victim of childhood (and into her teens) sexual abuse and I can tell you it basically has ruined her life. Because of this she had major sexual issues and major anger issues. She was abusive and insanely depressed, suicidal. It ruined our relationship. I did my best to be supportive but in the end I probably would have snapped and hit her, she was physically abusive.

      Hopefully you can get into some very good counseling for her.

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      I just can't wrap my mind around how someone can do that...its fucking horrific. Her earliest childhood memories are of being abused...and then she had to endure it until her early teens when she figured out how to stand up for herself. The amazing thing is that she is the most beautiful woman inside and out, that I've ever met. She feels disgusting and broken, but every indication to the outside world would tell you the exact opposite. My fucking head is just spinning right now...I haven't slept and I can't stop thinking about all that she had to go thru. She's never told anyone until last night. She's always hated him and I knew that but that didn't stop her from putting on a show for the rest of her family and pretending like nothing ever happened every time she sees him. I don't know how I'm supposed to be in the same room with him now. I know it's not about me and there's no way she's ever seeing her family alone again...but I don't know how that's actually going to work right now.

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      Quote Originally Posted by German89 View Post
      Dang forty! I am so sorry. I wish I could give you some advice.

      thanks german, I know you are...but honestly I'm glad you don't have any advice. I'm afraid it's only going to come from other people in the same fucked up situation

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      Quote Originally Posted by anomily88 View Post
      Sorry man I went through that as a child and have life long hatred the people that hurt me as a child are dead I find its good to leave it alone mentally but women pick up on it my friends wifes think I hate women tell they get to know me u can Pm me if u want

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      I am so sorry you went thru that yourself...I truly am. I felt broken last night as she relived it and told me everything...and I still do. I can't imagine having to carry that around your entire life, for either of you.

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