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      His issues are not the cell phone, yes the cell phone and unlimited xbox are contributing factors. His issue is that his father is a complete POS that has never had to pay his way. My wife supported him while they were married, now when he gets in a bind, his daddy bails him out. Hell we send them food, I've given him money to pay for meds and even called in a favor to help get him a car after he wrecked his.

      The kids problem is that he see's what little effort his dad puts into things and thinks that's how life is. I don't play that shit in my house. I work my ass off for what I have and for what I provide. I have zero patience for lack of effort. A life plan of being a you tuber is not a life plan to me. Its hard on my wife because I put her in the middle but she knew this coming into the marriage. Her oldest son and I have a few issues but he gets it. They are just a different breed because of their dad. I try not to let that cloud my judgement but dammit, it gets hard to over look sometimes. I don't like throwing in the towel and sending him to his dads but I have a lot of stress in my job and I'm dealing with a mother with dementia and the last thing I need is some little shit fukking around in the house and threatening me. Our house and his dad's house are night and day and I some how think that sending him back into a dump will make him realize how good he has it in our house. its not working.

      Their dad has been wanting to move back to Mass and live with his parents, mind you he's 45. He has wanted to take the little one with him, which we will not allow. We're not going to split the kids up. So long story short, we're going to offer to pay his way to move back to daddy if he will just leave. We'll send the kids up to see him next summer. I think that will give the little one enough time to get over his issues......atleast I can hope.

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      Quote Originally Posted by bigpapapumpaf View Post
      I've shared a little bit of the drama that this little shit has caused us but this one will floor you.

      Caught him on his phone in the middle of the night, so I took it from him. Every other time we've taken his phone he's been up to no good via text messaging. This time he texted his dad that he was going to 'kill me one day'!

      How pissed should I be? He's a 12 year old little runt that's about dumb as a rock. I am livid at him and his dad who should have jumped his ass but didn't. The wife is pissed because I read his phone.

      Geez.....wtf is wrong with this picture?

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      Sounds like you need to have a sit down.
      Man with how some kids are these days you just never know if it's talking shit or for real. Hope things get better for ya brotha.

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      What a little fucker, just start giving him hidens ha!

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      Hope things get better for you and your family big papa . I'm sure you will eventually get him going the right direction seems you want to and the dad is just the lazy ass. Keep Trying ..............kids are soft as fuck in our society these days( I have great kids but they still tend to be soft sometimes) electronics , social media makes them tards . Keep Pumping bro

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      Brother, most adults play the victim and especially kids. He probably feels like it makes his daddy proud or some shit. Me being me I'd be like well stepson here's your chance to kill me take a swing and just make him look like an idiot. Also FYI my parenting skills may be questionable.

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      Seems your wife raised that kid wrong and maybe it is time to have a little talk about his behavior towards you (if you are not the father). He is at the age where he's testing limits and you need to show him what the limits are.
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      The little shit thinks that if I'm out of the picture that his mom and dad will get back together. Geez........they've been apart 10 yrs and she's been with me 7. Maybe dad is filling him with wishful thinking....

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      Brother you need to walk away from this for your own good. Let her raise the kid on her own or with the father and when the kid is grown then you can be with the woman. Or you could just find someone who doesn't have kids.

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      It could be the dad or just the kid. Their minds aren't developed enough to comprehend what's going on and they are hormonal monsters. I can understand the kid though and why he has anger towards you in particular. Whatever happened between the mother and father also happened to the kid and a lot of parents never address that. Kids are not a hobby, they are our lives as parents and when parents are divorced that fucks kids up. Two people married, brought life into the world and then split for whatever reason destroying that child in the process. Now you're shacked up with the mother and the kid is in an even more complicated situation. It's not a good situation for anyone brother no matter how long you've been with the lady. Look into mgtow. We never hook up with mother's for a reason.

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      Quote Originally Posted by 5forty View Post
      Personally, I think the only thing you can do is report it. Just saying that really turns my stomach, but what other choice do you have? I'm assuming you don't want to walk away from your wife...and it doesn't sound like she's going to be much support right now. I think I'd start with his school's guidance counselor first...not the cops. I'd invite your wife to go with, but I'd plan on meeting with them and discussing the troubling text that he wrote about you and ask his counselor to talk to him. That way there is the start of some kind of record of what's going on....who knows, maybe he needs it anyway and it will help. From there, I think your options are to get involved in family counseling, file an actual report with the police, or walk away from it all. I guess you could do nothing and hope for the best, but that wouldn't really be an option for me.

      Again, if it were me, I'd be really pissed off about the overall situation...but I wouldn't put much into a 12 yr old saying he wants to kill me some day. In a way, that probably means you are doing your job. It sounds like he's the center of his own universe and doesn't like that you disagree with that. I think if you lay a finger on him now, you are fucked. However, keeping some kind of record of things over the next year or several years might be a good idea, if you think the day will come when he puts you in a position where you need to lay a finger on him. My 14yr old son and I are like best friends. I couldnt ask for a better son...but even with him, every once in a while he has the urge to push things. I think it's a combination of just growing up and seeing where he fits along with raging hormones and the stupidity that can go along with it.
      Agreed.
      A paper trail and keeping the right people in the loop is the way to go and your covering your ass.
      If anyone things kids canít or wonít turn on them to get their way they are sadly mistaken.


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