Quote Originally Posted by GymPrincess View Post

I guess the annoyance comes from assuming because I am in decent shape and have a decent amount of muscle and am a woman that it has to be ONLY because I must be competing. My husband is in as decent shape as me and no one ever asks him that.

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Ok, this makes sense. So like the insult would be because the person would assume the only reason to be muscular is competing. Not because it looks waaaay better than fat.

Shoe other foot...
You ask some fat fuck if he’s preparing for Nathan’s showdown. Which ironically has mostly skinny people.
Probably more of a different kind of footwear.

I guess I get annoyed by guys asking me if I’m a “body lifter” or “How much do you lift.”
The worst is when they ask if you use steroids and make the junkie shooting up gesture.
But this NEVER occurs in the gym so maybe context and location come into play.

I’ve never complimented breasts and followed up with “Is that a boob job?”
Of course, I’ve never complimented breasts. I’ve probably urged small breasted women with amazing bodies not to mutilate themselves with surgery but that has been only in close circles.